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How To Find A Mate-Is’t Not Good To Be Alone!

It's Not Good For Man or Woman To Be Alone

It's Not Good For Man or Woman To Be Alone

“The fault lies, Dear Brutus, not in our stars but in ourselves.”
– William Shakespeare, Julius Caesar

God grace through the Universal programming will grace you with the love you’re meant to have, but ultimately it’s your will that makes it happen and makes the most of it. In other words, where there’s a will, there’s a soulmate!

EVERYTHING WAS GOOD; Genesis 1:31 And God saw every thing that he had made, and, behold, it was very good. And the evening and the morning were the sixth day.

All was good except, it was not good for mankind to be alone: Genesis 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

If you want your soul mate, ask, seek and knock, because everyone who asks receives, everyone who seeks finds, everyone who knocks the door is opened to him. Matthew 7:7  Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.

Matthew 7:8  For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. Are you an EVERYONE, yes or no?

Matthew 7:11  If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?

From the scripture above you see that God said it’s not good for man, this is mankind, to be alone. Now do you still think it’s God’s will for you to be alone? No it’s not! There is someone suitable for you somewhere, ask, seek and knock, this is a perfect gift that God has given you.

James 1:17  Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.

If you haven’t received what you ask for it’s not God it’s you believe it or not.
Double minded man is unstable in all his ways and will not receive anything from God.

If your conscious mind says I want to be married and the subconscious mind  is programmed that no man is good, your father or some other authority figure abused their wives in some way and you judged the experience as bad as an adult or as a child, if you look a so called reality shows that put men down, this is your subconscious programming as far as men are concerned. This thinking will repel instead of attract your soulmate to you.

The king of queens is not king of his home, everybody loves Raymond except his wife, are men being ostracized and criticised around you? If so this will cause you to think subconsciously “who wants a man or who needs one”.

Have you ever said I make money enough to take care of myself, I don’t need a man or have you heard it said by someone else more than once. Have you in the company of family or friends said I don’t want or need a man.

Without faith it’s impossible to please Him who gives you desire of the heart. Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks, you can see what’s in your heart and you have what you say.

The heart is deceitful and desperately wicked who can know it, who knows what’s programmed in their mind. When you haven’t received what you asked for this is a good indicator that you have some faulty programming and that needs to be changed. We know from Matthew and Luke, that out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh. What have you been speaking?

Every time you think a thought and speak you are recreating your life over and over again. Luke 6:45, A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh. Bringeth forth in Greek is Prophero, means to produce.

If you are thinking and speaking good things concerning a soulmate you will bring forth or produce good things, but if you are thinking and speaking bad, evil, grievous, harmful things concerning a mate you will produce nothing.

Romans 12:2 tells us renew our minds. It is estimated that 85% of our subconscious programming comes from our predecessors through our genetic make up. This also contributes to your personality. In other words you are living other peoples lives positive or negative and are also being programmed positively or negatively from your circumstances, which are those things that go on around you.

Everything from conception to now is programmed in your subconscious mind. The subconscious mind controls your life, it’s the labe or central part of you. This is why we are told in Proverbs 4:23 TEV to Be careful what we think because our thoughts shape our lives.

Remember that All things are yours, All things richly all things to enjoy and you have All things that pertain to life and godliness.

Ask and the answer will be given and set miraculous experiences into motion.
Here are 5 questions you need to ask God:

  1. What is God’s will for my life in this experience? You already know this.
  2. How can be this experience get any better than this?
  3. What else is possible for me in this experience?
  4. What’s right about this experience?
  5. What can I do to change this experience?

Ask, trust and believe you are where you are supposed to be right now and enjoy your journey.

I hope this encourage you and help build your faith in the truth that it is not God’s will for you to be alone.

Love yourself so that you can love someone else, treat yourself well and put yourself out there.